An empty shell

Crabby Patty has gone on to greener pastures, or would that be sandier beaches? Anyway, I am not sure what caused his (or her) passing. It has been immortalized in this blog however. I don't understand since he was so active the other night. Maybe the levels within the aquarium were not to his satisfaction. They require more care than one would think. Moisture is very important as one might guess from a sort of sea creature. Funny how that makes me think of a comment a friend made in an email to me last night. It was a reply to a comment I made about feeling as though I didn't have time to truly develop a relationship with someone and that timing is my nemesis; he said that friendship is something that needs to be watered. How true. All creatures great and small (and we are are all great and small when going into the grander sceme of things. But I will spare you my reflections and such on that)require friendship to sustain life. Life as in learning, and growth etc... Anyway, sorry Crabby. The other crab is just fine, however. So maybe Crabby was just not healthy or hurt himself on one of his climbs about the aquarium. I dunno...

Speaking of over explanation...
My daughters best friends father came to pick her up this morning. I told him that we had gone to the movies last night and went into the differences in production between Warner Bros. and Disney. Comparing the two movies released as late. How I felt they had flip flopped a bit and my perception of it all. He sort of stood there with a blank expression...saying "Oh yeah..?" I pretty much figured...ok I need to stop cause he isn't connecting with my thought and I am looking kind of...I dunno...weird. Deep thought is not for everyone and I sometimes lack the direction in who I can and cannot do that with. Glad that awkward moment ended swiftly. Not to mention, well I guess I am, the fact that he showed up shortly after I crawled out of bed. I was in jamis, hair a mess and no bra. I stood there with my arms crossed, to hide my free flowing frontal, and looking quite dishelved. Ugh...

So...onto another day. An easy, relaxing and unproductive one, I am hoping.