Monday, May 09, 2005
Random Rant...keep moving...
Ya know? The next time I hear a married individual complain because they don't get any...I am going to have slap someone silly. Hello? Your married. You have a person, that you love and committed your life to, laying in your bed next to you and you don't get any? Who's fault is that exactly? What are you doing to change the situation? You have this incredible world of options and exploring open to you with someone that supports you and your desires (ideally) and you come to lonely, single me and complain? No...No...No. I don't think so.
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Amen! :)
Ha! Yes indeed.
Instead of slapping, I just smile and say, "Well, you know you're not getting any, but only your spouse can say he/she isn't." And then I duck.
Ok...ya gotta love the laughing...
Too funny.
I haven't slapped anyone yet. And, I am definitely keeping that line in mind...
or maybe the reason is because sex is supposed to be an intimate exchange between two people. perhaps there was "love" in the beginning (when both people were faking it to try to convince the other that they should be together).
After the illusion has faded and the reality is staring you in the face: a lifetime with someone who is not what they convinced you they were in the beginning, faking intimacy seems like a lie that's not worth the payoff of getting-off (with them). I say a lifetime because if there are kids involved then there is no chance of a clean break without making them pay some price.
It also feels like a lie if the other person doesn't love you, or doesn't know what love is or how to love because they're still in the non-developed mental state of thinking life is strictly about getting what they want and everyone else is just there to help them get it.
But that's just a little speculation, i wouldn't know first-hand.
All i really know, is that if you hold the control key on your keyboard while you hit an arrow key, it makes the cursor jump whole words at a time (instead of just one character at a time). How much better would the world be if everyone knew that?
Dear Mr "Anon" M
I am sorry if that struck a nerve with you. We have never agreed upon this particular subject. There is still a price to pay for being in a relationship that is not fulfilling. On all aspects. A great lesson yes, to show commitment and dedication regardless of that sense of loss on certain terms, but there is also a lesson there about marriage being unsatisfactory etc... I wish I had time to explain more.
But then again, you don't know first hand. Uh huh.
I understand your sight on the subject. I wish I wish...I wish. It was different...on someotherlevel. ;)
Anon M?
is that like abbreviated form of Anon M-us?
However you choose to read it.
Although, It was more personal.
And ya know, another thing...
Too bad that you seem to think that your value lies in your technical skills only. You are worthy of much more and deserving. There is something to be said for that, maybe it is coming from my perspective of being single and having gone through unwanted and unmerited divorce (on my part, although I will be the first to admit that it takes two for marriage two for divorce). I Know the ramifications first hand. I have been on both sides of the fence and feel that I can come from a place of understanding where either side is concerned. I know about not being able to make a "clean cut" and the damage that can be sustained. But, what kind of damage is caused by staying in a situation such as one you described? A long term lesson of negativity doesn't produce positive results. It produces long term negative views on what should be viewed as a positive, whereas what I have experienced does make for some bad moments and changes, the effects of such decisions have been the most positive, to say the least.
I had better stop, be fore the battery runs out. Sheesh.
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